Saturday, August 29, 2020

Masturbation Techniques

Here's a few basic masturbation techniques - for stimulating our penis to ejaculate or to simply feel good for a few moments. Different parts of the penis - with different feelings for different emotions.! You probably do a few of them already, but have you ever analysed what you do and when?


When I want that quick wank - and my mind is focused upon ejaculation I may well just do the foreskin masturbation.

This can be less about the focus upon the sensations and emotions evoked in the actual act of masturbation, but more about the end result – getting us to the ejaculation.
man masturbating by sliding foreskin back and forth over glans
starting things off slow with the foreskin wank! This is great when our mind is set on ejaculating - but not so great for a nice, sensual penis play, masturbation session.


Emotional fulfilment: sexual, maleness, release, animalistic



Here's an alternative foreskin wank for circumcised guys

Just because you don't have a foreskin does not mean you can't masturbate in a similar less sensitive way - the glove folded in on itself gives some fairly similar sensations.




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Foreskin/glove masturbation - Perfect for when we are feeling
  • animalistic,
  • are so horny we need a release
  • when our mind's too busy to delve into sensuousness
  • if we are not in the zone for the finer sensations that our body can deliver.



These are also good for boosting erection hardness - here in Erection Kaizen I explain why





When I am focussed upon my male sexuality as in BroTime - worshipping my cock - aiming for  the sensuous,  dry orgasms - I use the finger masturbation technique - to encourage those sensations to build and build into that sexual frenzy.

Two great finger tip masturbation techniques are --two fingers......

showing glans stimulation with two finger wank
Sensual glans stimulation between two fingers

erection coach demo 3 masturbation ways finger wank, fingertip on shaft and cupping
Three ways to stimulate your penis - sensual glans stimulation or calm things down with fingertip on shaft - for different sensations from intense to pleasurable to loving with the cupping of hand.





Emotions: sensuous, self loving, self fulfilment sexual independence 
I find similar feelings to when someone gives me blow job, but different to when I give myself one. 


Then there's the meatus sensation which is slowly stepping out of vanilla...

man using his finger to play and stimulate his meatus of erect penis
If you want to try some really sensual play then - here I show meatus play (wee hole or slit). A bit of saliva on my finger and it pushes very slightly into my urethra. If glans is squeezed - it opens my meatus up to allow finger to get just a little further in to stimulate urethra for some great sensual sensations 




Emotional fulfilment: sensuous, bonding with yourself by going somewhere different. and if new to this: excitement for different....

..with so many nerve endings being stimulated - plus our brain being stimulated with possibly a new hole to explore brings about a deep connection with our penis - a real bonding sensation, especially if your finger pushes in too much - our penis let's us know!

If you like this then there's a whole place to take this kind of play - but extreme care is required - the reasons are many which I'll go into in a future post. But if done carefully can be very sensuous.

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Monday, August 24, 2020

Do Guys Need To Masturbate? | Is it 2nd place to sex with a partner?

Hopefully you never feel guilt when masturbating, or after because we are made to do this...

Male Masturbation is viewed by many as 2nd place to sex with a partner. We are encouraged to keep such things quiet and secret - yet most guys do it. Sometimes we can be conditioned by society to think we should not be masturbating. Let's break that down, as that would mean we should not:

  • be looking after our body,
  • lowering our stress 

or making the most of the male equipment we were born with that is capable of giving us 

  • dry orgasms
  • meaningful self love 
  • a deep contentment
  • sustained heightened erotic state of pleasure from anywhere between 5 minutes and 5 hours. (the 5 hours is perhaps a very special treat)
plus a focus: as a sexual pressure releases which: frees up our body and mind to be:

  • healthy
  • creative
  • content 
  • fulfilled 

....and therefore a better male within society. Society should be encouraging us to masturbate!


The unobscured preview clip is here in BroTime preview


What starts the need for masturbation..

Our Testicles.... 

...produce the Male Sex Hormone - testosterone and their you have it in a nutshell - those three words male sex hormone flooding throughout our body. How can this possibly be suppressed and why should it.  We are made this way - to populate the world with all the sperm we produce in our testicles. However on it's own sperm would not be as successful to ensure survival of the human species as it has to get to the right place, but when combined with testosterone -  it's powerful - as our world population demonstrates

If the human population were low in numbers and near extinction, then masturbation could perhaps be viewed as a waste. Yet we are perhaps on standby - at some point we may be needed to perform, but until that time we can keep all our equipment in good working - with masturbation,  knowing if needed we can perhaps help out.


Erotic Pleasure

As human sexual males we may well be on standby - however we cannot simply switch off these urges and nor should we. These urges are programmed into us and have evolved to give unrivalled satisfaction. We should embrace them - we are male sexual humans and should honour this - not be ashamed of it but embrace it (the essence of BroTime). Masturbation is advocated by medical establishment to cleanse our reproductive system, lower cancer risk and reduce stress.  If we masturbate to our full extent - exploring our sexual mind and body - we get unrivalled pleasure from such a simple and I would argue pure act. To not appreciate this and enjoy it would be like.- as described in the video....


The unobscured preview clip is here in BroTime preview

It is a shame we are not allowed to talk openly about our times we have more openly, (BroTime starts to provide that place). or indeed this blog perhaps can - feel free to comment below. 

It would be a waste not to  use the powerful instruments we have, and what is the point of deprivation. If we don't use it we lose it - so let's get to it - give your dick a great workout and be proud to do it and enjoy every flutter, sensation or explosion from within your body and mind. 

Once we have conditioned our mind to knowing that we deserve this for the above reasons, and many more, we need feel no guilt and enjoy that post ejaculation feeling to its full extent - clearing the guilt out makes room for pleasure and contentment. 

Evolution has given us great pleasure from a reproduction act – to not use this pleasure is such a waste – it is so environmentally friendly, good for us and good for society. If we have progressed at all as a society – surely it should be to adopt masturbation as a great thing.



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